so i had my ear lobes stretched to 00g for 3 years and I let them close up about 4 months ago, but they still have a considerably large gap (i’d say about a 10g, maybe 12g hole) and it’s just so frustrating because sometimes if I fall asleep wearing a smaller post sized earring they pop out, with the post intact, and i get worried that it’s only just stretching my ears again. ughhh guhhhhhhh.